Treasure you find.

when you deep clean your room!

from an LDS book i copied this section out of it....get a kick out of this.

A.C.T. Formula:

ANIMATION:
#1: smile! it may take some effort, and some people dont smile. So practice1 minute a day in the mirror! it sends the right signal "you're alright" or "you're more then alright!"

#2: Speech patterns! pick up your tempo but not too fast. {laughing and humor are also forms of voice animation}

#3: Eye Communication! yes, women spend time with make up for attracting attention to their eyes, but its only good in moderation. ALSO- TRY WINKING DURING A CONVERSATION-FLIRTATIOUS? YES! BUT EFFECTIVE! also "stare technique!"

#4: Posture & sit & walking! sit up straight & more lively.

#5: Listening! focus on what he is saying and respond enthusiastically. Laugh with, not at, someone in shared humor.

#6: Dress and Attire! Dress modestly & use appropriate use of jewelry. a girl must be attractive visually before she is anything else.

CLOSENESS:
"Each of us has about 18-24 inches of 'personal space' around us. when you allow someone into that space is showing acceptance. When we stand or sit close to someone we communicate interest (or disinterest). The GOLDEN MEAN which means not too much and not too little."

TOUCH:
the most effective of all. touch means (1) we are comfortable with ourselves (2) we feel equal to & comfortable with the other person. It can be done through a handshake, embrace or hug, simple touch of the arm, shoulder elbow or biceps.
Here's the catch: you can't expect for it to work only once or immediate result. don't judge it until you've tried it. THE FIELD IS WHITE & READY TO HARVEST.


I must have known i was going to need this eventually!!! :) Good thinking ahead kenz! hahaha